{"id":1468,"date":"2015-03-24T22:16:11","date_gmt":"2015-03-24T20:16:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogyokko.wfs.ro\/?p=1468"},"modified":"2015-04-08T14:03:51","modified_gmt":"2015-04-08T11:03:51","slug":"nu-intotdeauna-divortul-este-esecul-iubirii-asa-cum-nu-intotdeauna-casatoria-este-succesul-ei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/nu-intotdeauna-divortul-este-esecul-iubirii-asa-cum-nu-intotdeauna-casatoria-este-succesul-ei\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu \u00eentotdeauna divor\u021bul este \u201ce\u0219ecul iubirii\u201d a\u0219a cum nu \u00eentotdeauna c\u0103s\u0103toria este \u201csuccesul\u201d ei."},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00cemi plac oamenii ferici\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Mor dup\u0103 ei!<\/p>\n

\u00cemi vine s\u0103 fac o peti\u021bie pentru un proiect de lege, s\u0103-i pun \u00een rezerva\u021bie. S\u0103 n-ai voie s\u0103-i deranjezi cu angoasele tale, s\u0103-i \u021bin departe de gurile rele. Nu i-a\u0219 putea proteja \u00eens\u0103 de timp, de obi\u0219nuin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i de ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i.<\/p>\n

Fericirea este a\u0219a de volatil\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t toate \u00eencerc\u0103rile noastre de a o p\u0103stra fac mai mult r\u0103u dec\u00e2t bine.<\/p>\n

Fericirea nu se p\u0103streaz\u0103.<\/p>\n

Se tr\u0103ie\u0219te.<\/p>\n

\u0218i ca orice lucru care (se) tr\u0103ie\u0219te, la un moment dat moare. \u00cen cazul \u201cfericit\u201d moare cu noi, de b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021be. N-am v\u0103zut a\u0219a ceva cu ochii mei \u0219i nu cred c\u0103 exist\u0103, dar, fiind eu \u00eensumi un om fericit, nu pot s\u0103 stric fericirea altora, chiar dac\u0103 e \u00eentemeiat\u0103 pe t\u00e2mpenie. E bine \u0219i a\u0219a.<\/p>\n

Cineva spunea c\u0103 \u201cToate c\u0103s\u0103toriile lungi sunt divor\u021buri ratate\u201d.<\/p>\n

Pentru cineva care \u0219tie s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 pe mai multe niveluri de lectur\u0103, afirma\u021bia asta poate s\u0103 \u00eensemne multe. Nu sunt sigur c\u0103 nivelurile despre care vorbesc au fost sesizate \u0219i de autor :)) Ne mai ies porumbei din gur\u0103 mari c\u00e2t ni\u0219te vulturi.<\/p>\n

Mul\u021bi oameni pot spune cu certitudine c\u00e2nd s-au \u00eendr\u0103gostit \u0219i de ce.<\/p>\n

Cam la fel de mul\u021bi NU pot spune c\u00e2nd le-a trecut. Nici de ce.<\/p>\n

\u201cM\u0103 \u00eembr\u0103cam \u00een fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103 \u00een dragostea ta, acum simt c\u0103 m\u0103 str\u00e2nge\u201d<\/p>\n

Nu. Nu cred c\u0103 diferen\u021ba \u00eentre oamenii buni \u0219i cei r\u0103i este c\u0103 \u201c\u0103ia buni nu divor\u021beaz\u0103\u201d. Cred c\u0103 diferen\u021ba e \u00een CUM o fac.<\/p>\n

Prefer oameni care au divor\u021bat \u0219i se vorbesc de BINE la o mas\u0103 cu prietenii comuni, dec\u00e2t unii c\u0103s\u0103tori\u021bi care se toac\u0103 m\u0103runt.<\/p>\n

Prefer oameni care au decis s\u0103 mearg\u0103 pe c\u0103i diferite, dar sunt \u00een continuare p\u0103rin\u021bi unui copil chiar dac\u0103 nu mai sunt so\u021bi unii altora. Copiii aceia au mai multe \u0219anse la o copil\u0103rie fericit\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 certuri. Sunt destule familii destr\u0103mate care r\u0103m\u00e2n \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u0218i nu-i a\u0219a c\u0103 \u0219i voi prefera\u021bi elegan\u021ba unui \u201cLa revedere\u201d la momentul care niciodat\u0103 nu pare potrivit, dar, c\u00e2nd te ui\u021bi \u00een oglinda retrovizoare, realizezi c\u0103 timpul fugea \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 acel sf\u00e2r\u0219it n-ai fi avut \u0219ansa unui nou \u00eenceput?<\/p>\n

\"radu-f\"<\/a>Nu \u00eentotdeauna divor\u021bul este \u201ce\u0219ecul iubirii\u201d a\u0219a cum nu \u00eentotdeauna c\u0103s\u0103toria este \u201csuccesul\u201d ei.<\/p>\n

S\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m mereu s\u0103 nu confund\u0103m confortul cu fericirea \u0219i nici dragostea cu obi\u0219nuin\u021ba.<\/p>\n

Guest-post Radu F. Constantinescu<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00cemi plac oamenii ferici\u021bi. Mor dup\u0103 ei! \u00cemi vine s\u0103 fac o peti\u021bie pentru un proiect de lege, s\u0103-i pun \u00een rezerva\u021bie. S\u0103 n-ai voie s\u0103-i deranjezi cu angoasele tale, s\u0103-i \u021bin departe de gurile rele. Nu i-a\u0219 putea proteja \u00eens\u0103 de timp, de obi\u0219nuin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i de ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1469,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[83,54,84],"class_list":["post-1468","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fara-categorie","tag-divort","tag-radu-f-constantinescu","tag-separare"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1468","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1468"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1468\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1471,"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1468\/revisions\/1471"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1469"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1468"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1468"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yokko.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1468"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}